Celebrity News: The Bachelor’s Colton Underwood Comes Out as Gay
“Bachelor” Star Colton Underwood Comes Out as Gay
Colton Underwood is ready to speak his truth.
“Obviously this year has been a lot for a lot of people and it’s probably made a lot of people look themselves in the mirror and figure out who they are and what they’ve been running from or what they’ve been putting off in their lives,” he said. “And for me, I’ve ran from myself for a long time, I’ve hated myself for a long time. I’m gay and I came to terms with that earlier this year and have been processing it.”
Colton said the “next step” was letting people know. “I’m still nervous,” he told Robin. “It’s been a journey for sure.”
He later added, “I’m the happiest and healthiest I’ve ever been in my life.”
When asked about the moment that gave him the courage to share his truth, Colton told Robin that he got to a place in his personal life that was “dark and bad.”
“I think overall the reason why now, is because I got to place that I don’t think I was ever going to share this,” continued. “I would’ve rather die than say I’m gay. And I think that was sort of my wake-up call.”
Following Colton’s interview, the executive producers of The Bachelor franchise applauded his courage. “We are so inspired by Colton Underwood’s courage to embrace and pursue his authentic self,” the producers said in a statement. “As firm believers in the power of love, we celebrate Colton’s journey in the LGBTQIA+ community every step of the way.”
The 29-year-old reality TV star previously spoke about struggling with his sexual identity in his memoir The First Time. He wrote about growing up in a traditional household, sharing, “I didn’t know who I was… And I come from an athletic family, so it was always, ‘Move on, you’re good.’ So that threw me off. In high school, when I was struggling with my sexuality, I’m not going to talk to my parents about it. So I internalized it.”
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As Colton grew older, he abstained from sex with female partners, which caused some speculation about his sexual identity among his peers, especially his teammates.
“It was one of those things where you hear something so often, you start believing it,” he says. “I thought, maybe I am gay. The captain of the football team should be having sex and drinking, right? But I wasn’t.”
The rumors were so abundant Colton said his parents ended up confronting him about it. He recalled his mother telling him, “You know, Colt, we’d still love you and support you if you were gay.”
The speculation continued into Colton’s adulthood, even after he dated Olympic gymnast Aly Raisman and appeared on Becca Kufrin‘s season of The Bachelorette, as well as Bachelor in Paradise. It was during this time that his virginity became a topic of discussion, but his friends and loved ones were “proud” that he was open and honest about it.
However, his virginity once again became a source of insecurity for Colton when he appeared on The Bachelor, as it produced even more questions about his sexuality. He shared, “They’d say, ‘he’s gay, he’s hiding it.’ No. But I